PODCASTS, BLOGS & WEBSITES
APSATS Betrayal Recovery Radio www.blogtalkradio.com/betrayalrecoveryradio
Sex Help with Carol the Coach www.blogtalkradio.com/sexhelpwithcarolthecoach
Betrayal Trauma Recovery Podcast www.btr.org/recovery-podcast/
Dr. Sheri Keffer, New Life Radio https://drsherikeffer.com/about-page-insert/
Beyond Betrayal Community with Lisa Taylor https://beyondbetrayal.community
Staci Sprout re Female Sex and Love Addiction www.stacisprout.com
Sarah Morales re Gaslighting in Relationships www.sarahmorales.coach
Brené Brown https://brenebrown.com
Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS) www.apsats.org
EMDR International Association https://emdria.site-ym.com
Dr. Jake Porter on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMVU7SheKr5t2qle9fuWLpQ
READING LIST
Hope and Freedom for Sexual Addicts and Their Partners by Milton Magness
https://www.amazon.com/Freedom-Sexual-Addicts-Their-Partners/dp/0977440052/ref=sr_1_3?crid=W9T5BOI1YMFK&keywords=hope+and+freedom&qid=1642603065&sprefix=hope+and+freedom%2Caps%2C163&sr=8-3
Real Hope True Freedom: Understanding & Coping with Sex Addiction by Milton Magness, DMin and Marsha Means, MA http://a.co/d/4ni6wpP
Intimate Deception: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal by Dr. Sheri Keffer et al. http://a.co/d/8ulg2Yg
Worthy of Her Trust: What You Need to Do to Rebuild Sexual Integrity and Win Her Back by Stephen Arterburn http://a.co/d/4mLSDdO
Help Her Heal: An Empathy Workbook for Sex Addicts to Help their Partners Heal by Carol Sheets https://www.amazon.com/Four-Things-Women-Want-Man/dp/1501146718/ref=sr_1_1 crid=3PTZ1TNS8TO9D&dchild=1&keywords=4+things+women+want+from+a+man&qid=1634675310&sr=8-1
Help Them Heal: Teaching You Both How to Heal Your Relationship After Sexual Betrayal, by Carol Juergensen Sheets
Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction by Robert Weiss http://a.co/d/6BKgdqt
Sex Addiction 101: The Workbook, 24 Proven Exercises to Guide Sex Addiction Recovery by Robert Weiss http://a.co/d/0aH9hLn
Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating by Robert Weiss http://a.co/d/aNPzvbB
Beyond Betrayal: How God is Healing Women and Couple's from Infidelity by Lisa Taylor http://a.co/d/hAmTQjs
Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts by Vicki Tidwell Palmer http://a.co/d/6cxkmZK
The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life by Dr. Robin Stern http://a.co/d/2AIArET
Facing Heartbreak: Steps to Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts by Stefanie Carnes, Mari Lee and Anthony Rodriguez http://a.co/d/2yVkMqh
How we Love: Discover Your Love Style, Enhance Your Marriage by Milan & Kay Yerkovich https://www.amazon.com/How-We-Love-Expanded-Discover/dp/0735290172/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=how+we+love&qid=1582216011&sr=8-1
Boundaries: Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Updated-Expanded-When-Control/dp/0310351804/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1QPRSKYI5WMXQ&keywords=boundaries+book&qid=1582563564&sprefix=bounda%2Caps%2C155&sr=8-1
Courageous Love: A Couple’s guide to Connquering Betrayal by Dr. Stefanie Carnes https://www.amazon.com/Courageous-Love-Couples-Conquering-Betrayal/dp/194046708X/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=25OTMEIJNU0G6&dchild=1&keywords=courageous+love&qid=1634735868&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUE4UlVUMVcwNUZVRE0mZW5jcnlwdGVkSWQ9QTA4NzIzODNONUxUUFkyMktIWFUmZW5jcnlwdGVkQWRJZD1BMDc4MDkxMDJJOE1KUjVCQkJMVlAmd2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9hdGYmYWN0aW9uPWNsaWNrUmVkaXJlY3QmZG9Ob3RMb2dDbGljaz10cnVl
Should I Stay or Should I Go: Lundy Bancroft/Jac Patrisi https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/042523889X/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_image_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Loveable: Embracing What is Truest About You, So You Can Truly Embrace Your Life by Kelly Flanagan https://www.amazon.com/Loveable-Kelly-Flanagan-audiobook/dp/B06XFMBX15/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=loveable+book&qid=1623957713&sr=8-1
Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope & Heal by Barbara Steffens & Marsha Means https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1737125595/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o06_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Out of the Shadows by Patrick Carnes https://www.amazon.com/Out-Shadows-Understanding-Sexual-Addiction/dp/1568386214/ref=pd_bxgy_img_sccl_1/134-7339206-7734062?pd_rd_w=goBeq&content-id=amzn1.sym.7757a8b5-874e-4a67-9d85-54ed32f01737&pf_rd_p=7757a8b5-874e-4a67-9d85-54ed32f01737&pf_rd_r=7A5G2Q0635QQB57Y3HNY&pd_rd_wg=ZahFu&pd_rd_r=91bc1e91-d2c5-4079-97c4-804af547afb5&pd_rd_i=1568386214&psc=1
The Couple’s Guide to Intimacy: How Sexual Reintegration Therapy Can Help Your Relationship Heal by Dr. Bill Bercaw CSAT CST & Dr. Ginger Bercaw Csat CST (**note: This is not recommended reading for couples in the first 1.5 stages of betrayal trauma) https://www.amazon.com/Couples-Guide-Intimacy-Reintegration-Relationship/dp/0982971001/ref=sr_1_1?crid=QOXT0EZ6OARN&dchild=1&keywords=couples+guide+to+intimacy&qid=1634676432&sr=8-1
Who Switched off My Brain? Controlling Toxic Thoughts and Emotions by Dr. Caroline Leaf https://www.amazon.com/Switched-Controlling-Thoughts-Emotions-2007-05-03/dp/B01FIVZFAA/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2521IT1BUPK0L&dchild=1&keywords=who+switched+off+my+brain&qid=1634675018&sr=8-1
The Great Sex Rescue: The Lies You’ve Been Taught and How to Recover What God Intended by Sheila Wray Gregoire https://www.amazon.com/Great-Sex-Rescue-Recover-Intended/dp/1540900827/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3R24DZIAK3VWU&dchild=1&keywords=the+great+sex+rescue&qid=1634675110&sr=8-1
The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book) by Don Miguel Ruiz https://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424319/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3MCVUEZG1JTJ7&dchild=1&keywords=four+agreements+book&qid=1634675185&sr=8-1
4 Things Women Want from a Man by A.R. Bernard https://www.amazon.com/Four-Things-Women-Want-Man/dp/1501146718/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3PTZ1TNS8TO9D&dchild=1&keywords=4+things+women+want+from+a+man&qid=1634675310&sr=8-1
30 Day Marriage Makeover by Douglas Weiss, PhD
Going Deeper by Eddie Capparucci https://www.amazon.com/Going-Deeper-Impacts-Sexual-Addiction/dp/B087YWPY9P/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2SLE8MHZR84TE&keywords=eddie+capparucci&qid=1659033031&sprefix=Eddie+cap%2Caps%2C120&sr=8-1
Why Men Struggle to Love by Eddie Capparucci https://www.amazon.com/Why-Men-Struggle-Love-Overcoming/dp/B09MYTGN6H/ref=sr_1_3?crid=2SLE8MHZR84TE&keywords=eddie+capparucci&qid=1659033031&sprefix=Eddie+cap%2Caps%2C120&sr=8-3